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Kenapa saya tanya soalan sebegini rupa? Sebab insyaAllah saya sebenarnya nak kahwin akhir tahun kedua(benda baik jangan dilengah2kan:-)) tu pun kalau semua berjalan lancar...minta pendapat wahai semua:-)setiap comment akan diupdate di dalam post ini.
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Islam prefers marriage at the right age,sooner after puberty when a boy or girl becomes physically,emotionally and intellectually matured.Muslim boys and girls should commit themselves to marriage as early as possible so that allurement of life would not drive their passion into un-Islamic acts.'Prevention is better than cure'.Early marriage is encouraged so that the spouse may not fall into fornication as a result of not being able to marry.The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) addressed the youths encouraging them to get married as soon as they are capable of shouldering the responsipility of marriage saying: “O youth! Whoever amongst you is able to marry, let him marry, because it helps him keep his eyes away from lustful looks and preserve his chastity. And whoever is not able to marry, let him observe fasting, as it is a shield for him (i.e. protection from lapsing in fornication).”I have read once a research from an expert,he said that,"Married couples perform better at school or university and are more emotionally stable than singles.Also,living together with one's wife will cost one much less than if each one of them lived separately."
This is just my comment.apa yg baik itu dtgnya dr Allah,yg buruk itu dtgnya dr kelemahan sy sndri.
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Islam prefers marriage at the right age,sooner after puberty when a boy or girl becomes physically,emotionally and intellectually matured.Muslim boys and girls should commit themselves to marriage as early as possible so that allurement of life would not drive their passion into un-Islamic acts.'Prevention is better than cure'.Early marriage is encouraged so that the spouse may not fall into fornication as a result of not being able to marry.The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) addressed the youths encouraging them to get married as soon as they are capable of shouldering the responsipility of marriage saying: “O youth! Whoever amongst you is able to marry, let him marry, because it helps him keep his eyes away from lustful looks and preserve his chastity. And whoever is not able to marry, let him observe fasting, as it is a shield for him (i.e. protection from lapsing in fornication).”I have read once a research from an expert,he said that,"Married couples perform better at school or university and are more emotionally stable than singles.Also,living together with one's wife will cost one much less than if each one of them lived separately."
This is just my comment.apa yg baik itu dtgnya dr Allah,yg buruk itu dtgnya dr kelemahan sy sndri.
satu penerangan yang cukup panjang lebar dan bernas..terima kasih
hadis2 diantaranya
“Carilah oleh kalian rezeki dalam pernikahan (dalam kehidupan berkeluarga) “
(Hadith riwayat Imam Ad Dhalani) dalam Musnad Al Firdaus
dan ada firman Allah dalam kitab suciNya yang Allah akan cukupkan rezeki/harta bagi sesiapa yang berkahwin
TAPI ada sesetengah yang mengatakan baik kerja dulu,kumpul duit,establish kewangan dulu baru kahwin...
adakah alasan sedimikian rupa bole diterima,minta pendapat..
bleh r rase nasi myk australia kali gane..haha
insyaAllah:-)...mak ayah dah bgi nama elok2 xnak guna pulak,Tanpa Nama konon...
serius ke Muhammad nk kawin?
bila sedar apa muhammad buat selama ni salah,muhammad semakin kurang cntct si dia dan muhammad boleh buat semua tu,kahwin lambat sikit pun boleh...just kesian kat si dia, maklumlah perempuan beremosi sikit.dia lemah sikit.dulu orang biasa take care tiba2 xda orang take care...
Allah dan nabi dah syariatkan jalan terbaik adalah dengan berkahwin.
insyaAllah kalau Allah izinkan...sekarang ni tengah mempersiapkan diri dari segala sudut...
harap doakan yang terbaik...
SubhanAllah...I feel so amazed that u guys are able to do so,menjaga hbgn demi mengharapkn keredhaan Allah.May Allah bless you guys.
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Tq for the comment.. :-)